It’s important for a man to know something about women.

I think the best source in this case are women themselves. Because of that I’ve asked several ladies for their top 5 most annoying things in man. They were eager to help us with this whole exercise. There is nothing magical in the answers but they are things that the majority of men often forget. Read below and think about your behaviour:

  • Overall control in the relationship. The summary of the answers shows that most women don’t like the over-controlling boyfriend. Guys, this is normal. Sometimes we have to be really strong and dominant but not all the time. If there is some kind of danger, then yes – you are the man and you have to do something about it, but thats it. She is a normal human being and you have to respect her. Put boundaries to your over-controlling self. Everything goes better if you both are equal in the relationship.
  • The weak men. This is the second most mentioned answer. Females don’t like weak men and you have to take this into consideration. Find the perfect balance between the macho and the infant boy. Be kind and open the door for her, be a gentleman, not only for her but for all the people around and if there are hard times defend her. This is the simplified version of not being weak. It’s not a physical quality. You can be a bodybuilder with arms like Arnie but still weak from the inside. You should make a plan to grow and follow this plan. Girls likes men with a plan for their life.
  • Don’t be “mr. Know-it-all”! She makes mistakes, but for the sake of your own happiness, don’t correct her in every possible way. Yes, if your life is in danger – of course do what is necessary, but for the small everyday stuff if you do that, it will be like a cold shower in the winter. Making those remarks she will be very annoyed all the time, which could surely lead to a fight. Not a good thing for a healthy relationship. Bonus tip: don’t use expressions like “I know that” when she is exited to tell you a fact about something. This is mr. Know-it-all behavior.
  • All the girls asked, told me that they don’t like excessive jealousy in their relationship. Sometimes it’s healthy to have some jealousy in your relations, but not too much. If you aren’t interested in what she is doing and with who – you are too indifferent but please don’t call or text her all the time just to check if she is with some other guy. If you don’t trust her, maybe she is not the right girl for you.
  • The last one is really obvious but a lot of men don’t comply with it. Don’t stare at other women, don’t try to pick up other women, basically don’t be interested by all means in other women! You wouldn’t feel good if she was eyeing other men on the street, right? Think about the feeling in this exact moment and if you don’t want it for yourself, then don’t do it to her.

Don’t try to pick up other women.

There are a lot of other things that annoy her but if you consider these five and improve your behaviour based on them you will be better than most men.
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